1866 and all that
The occasional ramblings of a historical wargamer
Monday, 12 January 2026
Still in Ruins...
Friday, 9 January 2026
Twelve Months On
Today marks a full twelve months since I retired.
How has it all gone? Well...it is very much like this:
There was never a formal retirement plan, but the intention was for me to finish up and slot into a retired life. Then her indoors, who is a few years younger than me, would retire towards toward the end of this year. What we had not anticipated was her losing her job last April. But when did life ever go as planned? We have made some adjustments and moved on.
So what have I learned from retirement?
First of all, life us too short for cheap wine and crap coffee.
Second is that there is no cookie cutter solution so ignore everything that people tell you about what to expect and what you should do.
For example, I was cautioned that I would miss work. The final day, I was told, would a series of recurring thoughts... "this will it would be the last time I will be doing this". For me that was not the case. I handed back my laptop and other Company equipment, and walked out the door. I haven't looked back or thought about work at all.
I was also cautioned that I would miss the people and that was a real concern to me because for 25 years I worked with some extremely skilled and dedicated people resolving complex operational problems. But while I had that deep respect for these people and genuinely enjoyed working with them we had little in common - I mean none of them played with toy soldiers - and we didn't socialise much other than annual Christmas events and the occasional shared lunch break. So other than some email banter with one or two of them and some vague suggestions of "maybe coffee or lunch one day", I have had no contact and frankly haven't missed them.
So am I enjoying retirement? Damned right I am...I have finally found something I am good at!




























































